Confucius was a Chinese ancient philosopher. He was born in 551BC and passed away in 479 BC. A famous quote he well know for is as follows: 'Do not do to others what you do not want done to yourself.' His teachings valued the self, personal growth, and the respect for others.
Love others as you would love yourself, judge others as you would judge yourself, cherish others as you would cherish yourself. When you wish for others as you wish for yourself and when you protect others as you would protect yourself, that's when you can say it's true love.