In case of a dispute, don't rush and judge before you hear both sides of the argument.
Love others as you would love yourself, judge others as you would judge yourself, cherish others as you would cherish yourself. When you wish for others as you wish for yourself and when you protect others as you would protect yourself, that's when you can say it's true love.
When you truly love someone, you don't judge them by their past. You leave it there. Just be happy that their future belongs to you.
If you have a best friend that you can talk to about anything and they won't judge you, never let them go.
Your soul has no interest in judging, correcting or comparing itself to others.. Everyone is at a different level of growth.