Quote by Theodore Geisel (Dr. Seuss)
Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, nothing is going to get better. It's not.
Almost all married people fight, although many are ashamed to admit it. Actually a marriage in which no quarreling at all takes place may well be one that is dead or dying from emotional undernourishment. If you care, you probably fight.
In order for things to change, you have to see them as you want them to be rather than continuing to observe them as they are.
The secret of change is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting the old but on building the new.
Change can be scary, but you know what's scarier? Allowing fear to stop you from growing, evolving and progressing.
We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.
Marriage has no guarantees. If that's what you're looking for, go live with a car battery.
I always felt that the great high privilege, relief and comfort of friendship was that one had to explain nothing.