Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, nothing is going to get better. It's not.
Three things in human life are important. The first is to be kind. The second is to be kind. And the third is to be kind.
Women marry men hoping that the man will change. Men marry women hoping the woman will not change. Inevitably, they both end up disappointed.
Almost all married people fight, although many are ashamed to admit it. Actually a marriage in which no quarreling at all takes place may well be one that is dead or dying from emotional undernourishment. If you care, you probably fight.
In order for things to change, you have to see them as you want them to be rather than continuing to observe them as they are.
The secret of change is to focus all of your energy, not on fighting the old but on building the new.
Change can be scary, but you know what's scarier? Allowing fear to stop you from growing, evolving and progressing.
A friend is one to whom one may pour out the contents of one's heart, chaff and grain together, knowing that gentle hands will take and sift it, keep what is worth keeping, and with a breath of kindness, blow the rest away.